It’s hard out here for Lady Edith Crawley. Over the past six seasons of Downton Abbey, she’s faced an unusually high number of heartbreaks and obstacles for a woman of aristocratic means, despite her genuinely good heart and amiable personality. It’s become a well-worn pattern by now: Just as she’s about to achieve some level of happiness — as evidenced this season by her new beau, Bertie Pelham — “Poor Edith” is knocked back down and forced to start from square one. Ahead of Downton’s series finale, here’s every awful thing that’s happened to our favorite overlooked middle child.
Edith loves Patrick Crawley, the heir presumptive of the estate, but he gets engaged to Mary.
He then dies on the Titanic, and it’s revealed that Mary didn’t really love Patrick and was only engaged to him to keep the Crawley money in the family.
She shows romantic interest in Matthew Crawley, which is not reciprocated.
During their “date” to explore local churches, he only has eyes on the churches. He and Mary later become engaged and married before he dies in a car crash.
Sir Anthony Strallan leaves her after it’s revealed he’s going to propose.
After Mary discovers it was Edith who alerted the Turkish ambassador of what really happened on the fateful night of Mr. Pamuk’s death (sexy times!), Mary manipulates Strallan into thinking Edith doesn’t actually love him and was leading him on for the fun of it.
She and Mr. Drake, a local farmer, kiss and express interest in each other, but his wife finds out.
And then Mrs. Drake hires an additional farmhand for their farm, so they don’t need Edith’s help anymore, just when she was beginning to find purpose in farming.
Patrick Crawley returns to Downton and declares his love for Edith, but nobody believes his identity except for her.
A Canadian World War I officer claiming to be Patrick requests to stay at Downton’s convalescent home to recover from severe burn injuries. After some investigating by Lord Grantham that casts doubt on his story, Patrick leaves, but not before he and Edith grow a strong attachment to each other. His true identity is never revealed.
She gets back together with Strallan and they get engaged, but he leaves her at the altar on their wedding day.
Because he believes he’s “too old” for Edith and doesn’t want her to waste her life caring for him. The Crawleys don’t disagree.
Her family initially doesn’t support her writing a newspaper column.
Despite Edith finally finding a career that she enjoys and is good at.
Michael Gregson, Edith’s new lover, travels to Munich to get a divorce from his current asylum-confined wife to marry her.
He never returns, under very mysterious circumstances. It is later revealed he was killed during the Beer Hall Putsch. But …
Edith gives birth to her and Gregson’s daughter, Marigold, rendering the child a bastard and subject to scandal.
Although she originally intended the girl to be adopted in Switzerland (with the help of her Aunt Rosamund), Edith decides to keep Marigold as close in proximity to her as possible, and arranges for the Drewe family, local tenant farmers, to take her in at Yew Tree Farm.
She accidentally sets fire to her bedroom after throwing one of Gregson’s books into her fireplace.
Which nearly spreads to the entire upstairs wing of the estate. Although no severe damage is done, Edith was almost seriously injured.
Mrs. Drewe, initially unaware of who Marigold’s birth mother is, strongly dislikes Edith and her frequent visits.
It escalates when Mr. Drewe tells Edith to stay away from the child temporarily, which prompts Edith to remove Marigold from their care and flee to London. So …
Out of spite, Mrs. Drewe tells Cora about Marigold’s true identity.
Cora is surprisingly level-headed and accepting of the whole situation when the dust settles, and hatches a plan for Downton to take in Marigold under the guise of her being Edith’s “ward.” But not all the family members are happy about this new arrangement.
Mrs. Drewe kidnaps Marigold during a local fair.
She’s retrieved shortly thereafter, but not before Lord Grantham politely demands that the Drewes move away to prevent future disturbance.
Edith becomes engaged to Bertie Pelham, setting her up to become a Marchioness, until Mary maliciously reveals the truth about Marigold to him.
Which causes Bertie to end the engagement, saying he can never trust her again.