missed connections

The Very Similar – But Never Overlapping – Career Trajectories of Nicole Kidman and Hugh Grant

Illustration: Vulture/Courtesy of Studios

It feels like Hugh Grant and Nicole Kidman must have worked with each other some time in the past, right? Nope — despite sharing tabloid pages throughout the ’90s, the two actors had never appeared together onscreen until the upcoming HBO miniseries The Undoing. But though their paths didn’t cross, their star trajectories followed remarkably similar patterns.

Late ’80s and Early ’90s: Budding Stardom

After a steady string of Australian film roles, Kidman breaks out as a young wife in peril in Dead Calm. She goes to Hollywood, gets cast in a bunch of girlfriend parts, and — oh yeah — marries Tom Cruise. Though seven years older, Grant has to wait longer for his big break; at this point he’s mostly known for supporting performances in period pieces.

Mid ’90s: Full Flower

With star turns in Four Weddings and a Funeral and To Die For, Grant and Kidman cement themselves as sex symbols, albeit in two very different modes: breathy and seductive for her, bashful and neurotic for him. Their romantic relationships (Grant is dating Elizabeth Hurley) establish them as tabloid staples.

Late ’90s: Intermission

Professional and personal crises. Grant is arrested after soliciting a prostitute, and his first forays into Hollywood are discouraging. Kidman undergoes the grueling Eyes Wide Shut shoot and suffers a miscarriage towards the end of her marriage with Cruise. They both take breaks between movies.

The New Millennium: A Second Act

Grant reunites with writer Richard Curtis on Notting Hill, Bridget Jones’s Diary, and Love Actually, which reestablish his charming screen presence. Kidman throws herself into ambitious auteur projects like Moulin Rouge! and The Others. In 2003, she wins an Oscar for The Hours.

Late ’00s: Diminishing Returns

As the decade goes on, both are increasingly ill-served by studio fare. After the trilogy of American Dreamz, Music and Lyrics, and Did You Hear About the Morgans?, Grant’s career as a Hollywood leading man is over. Kidman does interesting work in indies like Margot at the Wedding, but her big-budget efforts — The Golden Compass, Australia, Nine — are one disappointment after another.

Early ’10s: The ‘Fuck it’ Years

A period of liberating experimentation. Kidman gets great reviews for the tiny Rabbit Hole and pees on Zac Efron in The Paperboy. Grant takes another hiatus — during which he helps expose the News Corp. phone-hacking scandal — returning with a series of race-bending cameos in the totally bonkers Cloud Atlas. (He also fathers five children by two different women.)

Mid-to-Late ’10s: Revival

In their 50s, both actors enjoy a comeback powered by supporting roles and TV work. Kidman gets another Oscar nomination for Lion, while her work in the buzzy Big Little Lies earns her an Emmy and a Golden Globe. Grant embraces his transformation into a character actor with turns in The Man From U.N.C.L.E. and Florence Foster Jenkins. He gets his own Emmy nomination for A Very English Scandal. Coincidentally, both also pop up as villains in different movies in the Paddington franchise — the closest they’ve come to overlapping before now.

*A version of this article appears in the October 12, 2020, issue of New York Magazine. Subscribe Now!

Nicole Kidman and Hugh Grant’s Remarkably Similar Careers